“The winter of a person is very cold really, very alone, I do not want again so alone passed, all mirth are not me, all happiness are not me, in the winter of a person, I have loneliness and anguish only. Died to calculate, anyway to them, I am redundant… “
So frozen character appears in the QQ space of a child of 14 years old of beautiful Ji Nv. On December 4, she leaves a writings of an author now dead to classmates here, want to end the life that oneself are in bud in this winter.
Posthumous papers utterance makes popular feeling acerbity
The girl Zhang Jie that writes posthumous papers (alias) it is the 3 students at the beginning of middle school of macrobian Ou Mou, after hearing parents wants to give birth to the 2nd child, will convey oneself protest with the means of such extremes.
In QQ space of Zhang Jie, a few diaries that the reporter sees she begins from November are pouring out the mood of him loneliness, grievance, be full of despair to life and future.
In last diary, zhang Jie writes down his posthumous papers, to oneself ” funeral affairs ” undertake arranging one by one: “You should call × × × to buy white rose to me oh! “You should call × × × to buy white rose to me oh!!
“You should buy firework to breath out to me, will celebrate me to cast off anguish eventually. Will celebrate me to cast off anguish eventually..
“You should wear the clothes that I like to breath out to me, I should wear wintry skirt, I should am the sort of very Fashion gets scarf to breath out, wear the boots that I like to breath out to me even, the dress also wants very Fashion oh, I want the United States to go beautifully… “
“Do not bury me to remote mountains inside, my person will be very alone over with what fear, of the backyard that buries me in my home, such me won’t loneliness and feared. Such me won’t loneliness and feared..
“Want I am breathed out, take an examination of an university later will see me oh. Take an examination of an university later will see me oh..
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In the puerile statement with this summary joking belt, appear to be able to see this girl fits the pattern of smiling face by force, the person that lets every see is unavoidable feel sad.
Give birth to 2 embryoes with protesting parents to death
“She is a hopeful and optimistic child originally, become suddenly so blue, still generate commit suicide idea even, it is to let a person want to be less than really. ” classmaster Mr. Lv of Zhang Jie says.
In Mr. Lv eye, zhang Jie is a very outstanding student, studying result always is before a few on the class, middle school of key of city of pass an entrance examination does not have a problem, the concern that follows a fellow student at ordinary times gets along first-rately.
Mr. Lv says, noticing student mood to produce apparent change is to be before a month, zhang Jie’s mother finds Mr. Lv suddenly at that time, appeal to him anxiously: The child should give an issue possibly, hope teacher can help do the work.
Original, zhang Jie listens inadvertently when the home on the weekend kin speaks of, parents is preparing to give birth to the 2nd child. At ordinary times the Zhang Jie with gentle and quiet disposition at a draught wool, object stoutly and follow parental roughhouse: “You want second birth brother little sister, I did not go to school,Short Ugg, also did not want to live! Also did not want to live!!
The mother still tells a teacher, zhang Jie is not to object parents giving birth to 2 embryoes for the first time, in the elementary school on her when 4 grade, plan to give birth to 2 embryoes because of parents likewise and run away from home, force parents to must shelve the plan that bears the 2nd child.
Undertake psychological dredge to help Zhang Jie, mr. Lv thinks method added Zhang Jie’s QQ,Mayfaire Ugg Boots, when be free, chat with her, hope she can walk out of the fast knot in the heart. But did not pass a few days, mr. Lv special astonished the ground to discover in the ground in her QQ space this seals posthumous papers.
Father: Children will be same look upon
Yesterday afternoon, the father Zhang Ming of reporter and Zhang Jie (alias) get in touch, the hope can help Zhang Jie undertake psychological dredge.
Zhang Ming says, the daughter’s posthumous papers also makes a family special astonish, door of this Zhou Zhuan asked for leave a week to the school to her, receive by the teacher of undergraduate family education previously go loosening the mood in an university. Look in view of the daughter antecedent mood is stabilized somewhat, zhang Ming does not wish she suffers the outside to disturb again, excuse oneself from the reporter’s help.
Zhang Ming says, he in long life a factory works, the wife is in the home soil, domestic economy condition is general, their couple wants to give birth to the 2nd child all the time, but object all the time because of the daughter and dare not put into effect.
“If second birth a child, two are the flesh that falls down on body of Mom old man, we still are not same like. ” Zhang Ming says, a child raises in the home, the daughter is much also a brotherly sister mutual coordinate, do not know why she is take things too hard, browbeat in order to die parents.
Last night, the reporter is informed from inside personally of Zhang Jie’s mother, she already was pregnant 4 months (the department exceeds unripe) , after the daughter is informed this matter from inside kin mouth, the likelihood has some of take a matter to heart. Reporter Shang Hanfeng
■ expert viewpoint
Parents again children of Lv of Yo take an examination is experienced
Chongqing assist with psychology advisory institute director, presiding psychology seeks advice from Shi Tangang to say by force, of Zhang Jie’s behavior and psychology and its family favorite always about. As a singleton female, she had been used to a person to share parents to give her love, worry about brother little sister very much accordingly be born the love that can yield her to lose father and mother,nightfall boots, lose the safe sense of mentally thereby.
“Another main reason is parents and child lack communicate and communicate, the child is in suddenly casual a decision that heard of parents, the mentality that creates her more easily breaks down. ” Tan Gang says by force, below the premise that accords with a country to concern policy, if the parent wants again Yo children, must undertake interior communication with the child more, let the child understand parental think of a way.
“If the child cannot be accepted from beginning to end, parents ought to respect his opinion adequately. ” Tan Gang says by force, “Parents wants to want a children more also is for domestic joy, if lose another child because of a child, perhaps let a child live in tremendous psychology shadow forever, have domestic happiness and joy hard. Have domestic happiness and joy hard..